It is what it is....

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Todd turned 50

Several weeks ago I contacted my sister in law Kelly to find out what they were going to do for my brother Todd's up coming 50th birthday, this is a milestone in a person's life and I felt it should be celebrated. Kelly felt the same way, she wanted to surprise him however she wasn't sure how to pull it off without him finding out, how could she clean house, cook food and decorate all without him knowing. Finally I said, "Let's have it at our house", and so we did. 




My niece Jen and her best friend Emily came over to our house early to decorate. And they did a great job. 


On Saturday November 13, 2010 we totally surprised my brother who thought they were coming to our house for dinner and cake for his birthday. Well, Kelly didn't lie they were coming to my house for dinner and cake. However little did he know that 30 plus of Todd's co-workers, friends and of course family were all there waiting to surprise him! Our Mom flew down from Oregon and our brother Tim came up from El Paso, Texas. He really was surprised!
My niece Jen caught him as he walked in the door to put on the celebratory 50th birthday hat and necklace! 

When the party was all planned I sent out an email thinking we should all get together and get Todd a gift worth giving. We decided on a laptop, needless to say I think Todd was very surprised! It took a minute to really register that their truly was a laptop in that box!
Contributors to the Laptop....Tim (brother), Troy (brother), Trent (brother), Tami (sister), Georgie (Mom), Tiffany (niece), Courtney (niece), Jen (daughter), Walt & Karen (in-laws).

Todd is the oldest of us 6 kids. We all felt he deserved the most special birthday and gift!
He and his wife Kelly have really been there for all of us. 
He is truly the father figure we never had growing up. 
What better way to thank him!

Sunday, November 7, 2010

What a great day!



The Journey is long, but if family sticks together nothing is impossible!

This weekend we had Michael's son Ian. He actually only stayed Friday night and all day Saturday. Saturday morning we woke up ate breakfast and all headed towards the canyon for a hike. All three of the kids were very excited about that! After our hike up one of the trails in Little Cottonwood Canyon we headed to Subway to get the kids and ourselves to get some lunch. After a nice lunch we headed to Wheeler Farms to see the animals and the beautiful fall colors. 
I have to say we had a wonderful day, 70 degree weather here in Utah in November is uncalled for, but we totally took advantage of it. The kids had a great time. 
Dakota age 15

Ian age 12

Kaitlyn age 9

Saturday, November 6, 2010

The Days of Old

My brother was so kind to scan and email these pictures to me, my Aunt Mary gave them to him when we were in Iowa for my Dad's funeral.
I had never seen these pictures before, and it was a very emotional thing to see them.
These were taken before my parents decided to divorce, I don't know the year but I'm guessing it was somewhere between 1972 and 1974, possibly sooner.
Me and my brothers and sister during Christmas.
Although we were smiling no one really new of the pain that was happening at home.

Top Right to Left: Todd, Tarianne, Tim and Bottom Right to Left: Troy, Tami (me) and Trent
 And this picture is the one I treasure most. Us 6 kids with our Grandpa and Grandma Keepers. I really loved my grandparents. I miss them so very much. I have really tried to be the same kind of Grandma I had. I learned to be a grandparent from the very best, and to me it's a compliment when my oldest brother Todd see's me with my grandchildren and tell me I'm the kind of Grandma like our Grandma's were! We didn't have it all, but God sure did bless us when it came to our grandparents.
I didn't realize how much I missed my Grandparents and then I saw this picture! I miss them horribly!

Thursday, November 4, 2010

I'm Gonna Live, and Live I Shall

About 3 weeks ago I was at work and I felt awful and my side was hurting and I IM'd my husband and said 
"Honey I sure don't feel good, I think I need to go to the doctor"
He asked me if I wanted him to take me to the doctor and I told him that yeah I think I should go.
Then we debated weather he should take me to Instacare or to the Emergency Room, I sat there for a minute thinking! I wasn't really sure what was wrong, but I knew something wasn't right. I even told my husband the night before, that I didn't know what was wrong but I just didn't feel right. So finally I made the decision to have him take me to the Emergency Room, which turned out to be a very good decision! 
After many blood test, an ultrasound and a CAT scan, the nurse came in my room and said "It looks like we're going to make you a resident for a couple of days"! Needless to say I was in shock!
It seems that I had 2 blood clots, one on my ovary and one on my kidney and they were somehow attached by a thin string of blood clot (none of the doctors had ever seen such a thing). This worried them, because if one of the clots dislodged then that could be deadly. They needed to start blood thinners right away, to stop the possibility of more clots. But what worried them even more was the fact that the found a nodule on the lower half of my right lung and because I am a former smoker this worried them. Worried them, oh geez it worried me. All I could think of was, I quit smoking 18 months ago because I never wanted to have to go through this. 
The next morning I was scheduled for a biopsy, they wanted to see exactly what that nodule was on my lung! So I had the biopsy and it was less scary then I thought it would be. 
The scariest part was waiting for the results which took about 4 days. 4 days on little sleep and much worry! Friday finally came and I went to my doctor, nervous but ready to face whatever he was going to tell me. You never realize how much you really love your life until the thought of it being gone is in front of you. 
It's NOT cancer!!!
Thank you Dear Lord!
So now I sure look at my life so different! I want to live, I want to be around for a long time!
So now I am keeping my Blood Sugar under control, watching what I eat, exercising and remembering how precious life really is. I've lost 14 lbs now, just from eating healthier and portion control and yes exercise. I have about 90 more pounds to go, but I am sure I can do it!
The view from my room at LDS Hospital was beautiful!


The beautiful get well basket of plants my employer sent me! 


Wednesday, November 3, 2010

A day spent with Two 2 year olds

Michael & I are very proud grandparents! 
This is something we do very well.
We have the grandbabies come to our house, spoil them rotten and then send them home to their parents, just as grandparents are supposed to do. We love them unconditionally, just as we do our own children. 
A Saturday in September our 4 oldest children and their spouses decided to go to the Dew Tour, so I volunteered Michael and I to babysit Blair and Oliver since Quynn was going to her Dad's house. 
What a busy day that turned out to be! Two 2 year olds and us! Busy but full of laughter and happiness.
I just wish to have a tiny bit of that energy!
Ollie wanted to wear the goggles, who cares if we weren't swimming!
 Then it was Blair's turn!
 And Ms. Blair is such a good cousin, she took time out of dragging out toys to help Ollie put on his shoes.
Ollie waiting patiently for Blair!
Happy that Mommy's and Daddy's are home.
Look what they brought us!

Three Little Girls

After the Pumpkins were all carved, these three little girls made me smile and reminded me why I do love them so much! My children, my grandchildren, My Family, they are my World! 
Family - the people who know all about you and still love you anyway!

Blair age 2, Quynn age 5 and Auntie Kaity age 9
They really do Love each other!

Halloween 2010

I remember being a child and loving Halloween, I am always amazed at the great costumes that people come up with! Today I still love Halloween and so do my children. Kaitlyn is now the only child at the Trick or Treating age, and lucky for me every year she knows what she wants to be. This year it was August I believe when she said "Mom for Halloween I want to be Super Girl" and all I could think of was WOW, I sure hope we can find a Super Girl costume or a pattern for one! Lucky for us, we were at Wal-Mart shortly after they put out their Halloween Costumes and she walked right to it. It was the one she had dreamed of Hallelujah! I think she looks adorable in her costume! And others thought so too cause she came home with so much candy, she said "Mom and Dad, I hit the Mother Load"! I want to know what she knows about a Mother Load LOL!

Kaity and Dakota before Kaitlyn's Girl Scout Party. 

Mr. Pumpkin Head, Michael decided this year he would get in on the pumpkin carving action. I think he did a cute job!

 Our oldest Granddaughter Quynn. This was the first year she really got to carve her own pumpkin and boy was she proud of it. And very well she should be, she did an amazing job. I guess that's what happens when you become a big Kindergartner!


 Oh Kaitlyn and Quynn were having so much fun going through the pumpkin guts, while Tiffany slaved away trying to clean out her pumpkin.
 Kaitlyn working away on her pumpkin, I actually forgot to take a picture of the final product!
 I know bad Mommy!
It was super cute cause she took the carving knife and carved her name in the back of her pumpkin.
 And she really loved that pumpkin!


 Tiffany and our grandson Ollie all dressed up for Halloween. We went to a party at Tiff's Grandmother in law's church and had a great time. By the end of the weekend we were Halloween partied out!



 Cute little Quynnie all dressed up in her Halloween costume. I might be a little bias but I think my Grandchildren are ADORABLE!
And Little Ms. Blair Daisy my youngest granddaughter made the cutest little Ladybug! 
My daughter Courtney and her husband Jason "The Devil Couple" ready to go out to a party.

My stepson Ian in his Halloween costume which I think is awesome! Honoring the men and women of the United States Army who give us the freedom and protect us so that we can celebrate things such as Halloween!